Avoid dating married men
It’s very rarely ill-intentioned." "I met this guy on a work trip about three years ago. It was after our first kiss he told me that he was married. It was like, Then he started explaining how she was verbally abusive and I felt bad for him. There were times when I felt like it was wrong and a line was crossed.
Our relationship started off with him being my mentor and helping me at work. He brought me to the house he lived in with his wife (she moved out and across the country) and that made me uncomfortable.
From enjoying no-strings-attached sex to simply falling for a friend and coworker, three women shared with why they slept with married men, and what it taught them about themselves.
"I’m a former marketing communications manager turned performer and entertainer. Married' about a year and a half ago when my friend asked me to play keyboard in his new band, and the man was the bassist.
He tried to talk me into getting plastic surgery and would say I was 'unhinged' when I got too upset.
It took me a while, but I realized that he was the crazy one.
At the same time keeping it under wraps made me feel awful, like he was ashamed of me, or us.Finally, I gave up and believed him when he said she would be ok with it.When we spent time together, it was mostly in parks outside of the city, or in our practice studio that we shared and played music in for a few months.He almost backhanded me in the face once during a disagreement, but I blocked him, and then he started crying.
He drank entirely too much and when that happened, all he did was pick a fight.
He assured me that his wife was cool with it and that they had a 'don’t ask don’t tell' relationship.