Dating a divorced man with
The first marriage he had was complete and accepted and he really did feel whole and complete. It’s a plaster stuck on his wounded heart that’s providing temporary relief.
Yes, you’re in happy land and everything seems hunky dory but soon you will begin to feel the void of dating someone else’s leftovers.
They have taken out my garbage, carried my luggage, taken my car for an oil change, cooked me dinner, talked about my day at work and brought me breakfast in bed.
I have found that dating divorced men with children to be an amazing experience for myself, as well as my friends and clients who are now single women with children of their own.I don’t care if he is the prince above all princes, the perfect and supreme human being, you will never have the joy of experiencing anything first together. When he first proposed to the ex, the first wedding, the first honeymoon, the first child he saw being born, the first time he bought the eternal home with her, the first time they went on holiday together etc.He put his heart and soul into “the first thrill” so when he starts dating you, it is no longer a thrill to him and neither is his heart and soul in it.As I have gotten older, I have loved dating divorced men with kids because it has taken the pressure off of me to have children with them.
I have also learned that men with kids love much more deeply. For all you single Mom readers, I think dating divorced men with children is a huge plus.
You will never get rid of that conscious wondering and comparing yourself with the first marriage from your mind.