Dating more than one man
By dating other people at the same time, you give yourself a built-in reality check to insure that you see things a bit more clearly.“Fine”, people say, “but how do you tell someone that you’re dating other people? Remember, you want to learn as much as possible about this person.
Their reaction to your telling them you’re dating others will reveal some valuable things about their personality and maturity.
For many single adults, there has been a history of dating one person, seeing if it will lead to a close significant relationship, and taking the relationship as far as possible.
We often talk in our workshops about the importance of de-intensifying the beginning of a relationship, if you want to date in a healthy manner.
When you date only one person, you have nothing to compare that person with.