Gay dating someone not out
Lately this takes the form of policing the kinds of romances we have: how open or closed they are. It was like that on a Halloween over three years ago.
I let him know that I only wanted to spend emotional capital on guys who could spend the same on me.
I flew down every couple of months, we talked on Whats App, and we set some basic rules: Either of us could sleep with whoever we wanted and if we developed any emotional attachments, we had to be straightforward and honest as soon as it happened.