Things discuss before dating
If you and your ex were apart for some time and you know that you both had the chance to see other people, you are not allowed to ask questions.
Rule number two in dating your ex: It’s none of your business what happened when you were apart.
Don’t rush into a relationship and close your eyes and ears. This list of fifty questions is a great place to start.
In other words, if you had a bad break-up with this guy and your pretty sure your brother might kill him if he ever sees your ex again, you’d better tell the family you’re dating again before the two of you show up for dinner.
No matter what happened between you before, whether he cheated on you or you were the one who did him wrong, the first rule of dating your ex is to not remind each other of the past.
You should never start a sentence with the words, “Remember that time when….” Leave the past behind you and don’t talk about old (bad) memories.
When I’m not hanging out with my Spawn, I’m happily sharing my dating experiences and offering advice and trying to control the chaos that comes with being human.
Don’t rush into a relationship and close your eyes and ears. Taking the time to slow down and ask yourself (and your man) questions is key. Each question could lead you to another question that will help bring clarity.
Is now a good time for us to pursue a relationship?